Quarantine: Stages of Grief
The first few days of lock-down were the hardest, by far. Each morning I would wake up with a twinkle in my eye, ready to take on the day… until … Continue reading
Quarantine: The Awakening
After a full week of isolation, I couldn’t take the endless sanitizing. I’m tired of following my husband around with Lysol, as if he was Typhoid Manny. Living this way … Continue reading
Quarantine: Cracks in the Foundation
Call me weird, but I was prepared for this weeks ago. I suppose from the outside it may look like panic, but in reality I have never felt more calm. … Continue reading
Green Card: Approved
Bright and early this morning, my husband and I had our ROC meeting, or the “Removal of Conditions” from his two year green-card. No matter how much proof you turn … Continue reading
Two Years Away From India
Two years have passed, and much to the surprise of many, Manny is still here with me. He didn’t run off after getting that precious green card, and he … Continue reading
Schrodinger’s Cat: Waiting for Medical Diagnosis
The Theory of Schrodinger’s cat, also known as Quantum superposition, “is a fundamental principle of quantum mechanics. It states that, much like waves in classical physics, any two (or more) quantum states can … Continue reading
The Momager: Advise to New Parents in the Entertainment Industry
All parents are their children’s managers in some aspect. Technically, the definition of a Momager is, “the mother of a famous person who is also their manager.” See: Kris Jenner … Continue reading
His Indian Parents Don’t Accept You?
“The Indian in-laws,” this topic alone is the basis of many Bollywood movies, yet the western world has no idea the depth or power these South Asian parents have over … Continue reading
Playa Jaco, Costa Rica 2018
Costa Rica gets into your soul. Pura Vida is a feeling; a way of life. My family has had connections to Costa Rica for nearly half a century, but lately … Continue reading
Culture Shock: The Good, The Bad, The Ugly
A subscriber recently told me that she wishes she could have my blog as a book; something tangible she could refer to throughout the day. Others have told me that … Continue reading
Coincidence? Maybe Not
There was a time when everything had meaning, the Universe magically handed me advice through interpretive signs. Life for me was like a happy little fairy-tale. I floated throughout the … Continue reading
What a Difference a Year Makes
Yesterday was Manny’s one year anniversary in the United States, we celebrated Holi at my university. That had to be the strangest year of my life. Sometimes I feel like … Continue reading
Your Boyfriend is From India? Pt 2
My current reach is over 10,000 followers through various social media, and each day, I’m contacted by several panic stricken, western women. Hello Ladies (and gentlemen), I welcome all your e-mails, … Continue reading
Nomadic Nirvana: Nassau, Bahamas
Cruise lines frequently stop in the Bahamas; it’s a convenient stop being so close to the Florida ports, and a lot of ships are registered there. With that said, the reviews on the Bahamas, Nassau in particular, are absolutely terrifying.
I will be the first to tell you, GO! It’s beautiful.
Manny’s First Christmas
Manny arrived in the U.S. at Easter-time. I tricked him into putting on some bunny-ears, and convinced him it was totally normal to go hide eggs in a field while … Continue reading
Separation
Don’t let the title fool you into a false sense of satisfaction. Manny took a trip up north with my mother; it’s the first significant amount of time we have … Continue reading
Desensitized, Gun Violence in America
“Déjà Vu” is a common intuitive experience that has happened to many of us. The expression is derived from the French, meaning “already seen.” When it occurs, it seems to spark our … Continue reading
Funny Intercultural Mishaps
A friend shared a story with me today. Our relationships mirror each other in many ways, so naturally, I started thinking about how colorful my life has become since meeting … Continue reading
Six Months in America
Reading through some of my old articles leaves me meloncholy; I’ve been reminiscing on everything we went through to get my husband to the United States. It feels like a … Continue reading
Our Story; Retold
I’m happy to announce that Tanya from “The White Punjabi Bride,” reached out to me for an interview about our love story. You can read her article below and maybe … Continue reading
Adjusting to the United States
What an amazing journey we have had! Many of you have been following our story… from when we first met, our engagement, the visa denial, the marriage and finally our … Continue reading
The Culture Shock of Moving to America
One can’t possibly know which nuances of acculturation will trigger a response, either positive or negative. Manny’s entry to America has become my own personal social experiment. Anthropology was my … Continue reading
Cr1 Spousal Visa: Interview Questions
Scroll down for interview questions, Please PRINT and Share! Our experience: Typically, once you arrive at this category of my blog you seem to be desperately searching for answers on the … Continue reading
Women of Modern Islam
Britt, April 20, 2017 A paper written for the University of South Florida Women of Modern Islam Much can be said about the religion of Islam, but typically you don’t hear … Continue reading
10 Reasons to Return to College as an Adult
Returning to college as an adult can be outright terrifying. Technology changes dramatically with each passing decade, but even more so has our culture. The introduction of social media allows … Continue reading
CR1 Spousal Visa: The Timeline
You may be happy to hear that Manny and I finally got approved for our CR1 Spousal Visa. It took us nearly four years, a lot of hard work, and … Continue reading
“Buddhaful Britt, Most Interesting Travel Blogger”
This has been a very exciting week for Buddhaful Britt. I was listed in an article on the Artful Club as one of the most interesting travel blogs to follow. … Continue reading
Dubai Travel Tips: Where to Go and What to See
Today we have a guest post on Buddhaful Britt, “Dubai Travel Tips: Where to Go and What to See” by Frank Lee; a fellow writer and traveller who works for … Continue reading
Easy Breezy DIY: Anti-Wrinkle Miracle
The excitement over this discovery has me so giddy that I couldn’t wait to write this post. My doctor gave me a new product to help heal my intestinal issues. … Continue reading
My Big Fat Sikh Wedding: Show Time
The high pitched, non-stop, honking of scooter horns is enough to jolt tourists out of bed due to the early morning New Delhi traffic, it can also lull you … Continue reading
Nomadic Nirvana: Cuajiniquilapa, Mexico
Visiting a Sponsored Child – Cuajiniquilapa, Guererro, Mexico By Lisa Britt | May 13th, 2005 on “Boots n All” World Vision is a children’s organization very similar to the Sally … Continue reading
Dinky Indulgence: 10,000 steps
Each morning I wake up and walk. This is one of my “Dinky Indulgences.” A Dinky Indulgence is something that fills your soul; a small pleasure that creates joy in … Continue reading
Toxic Root Canal
The latest whispering going on in the alternative medicine community is about the negative effects of root canals. They claim 97% of cancer patients have root canals; they say toxins … Continue reading
Surviving Long Distance Love
In a time where the internet has brought people together in ways we could not have imagined two decades ago, relationships like mine are becoming more commonplace. Maybe a Texan … Continue reading
New York’s Food-Centric Television
New York’s Food-Centric Television The indisputable hub for food-centric entertainment television is by far, New York City. Even though other cities, such as Paris, may be known for their food, … Continue reading
Nomadic Nirvana: St. Petersburg, Florida
As I travel, I tend to forget that I live in a beautiful paradise where people spend thousands of dollars to visit. I’ve mentioned before, that I am by nature … Continue reading
My Big Fat Sikh Wedding: Prelude
Things were starting to come together for the “big day.” My dress was finally ready… two days before I left for India. You can’t even imagine my stress level. Prior to … Continue reading
Today, I Call You My Husband
As a little girl, I would lie awake in bed imagining my wedding day. This was not your typical little girl fantasy about prince charming sweeping me off my feet; no, this … Continue reading
An Ant Named Bob
Buddhists say, “Do no harm”, it’s kind of their thing. I try very hard to do no harm consciously to a bug, animal or even people, but I’m not perfect; … Continue reading
The Indian Grocery: Beauty Products
One of my favorite things to do while I’m in a foreign country is go directly to the supermarket. For me, I behave like a kid in a candy store; all … Continue reading
Easy Breezy DIY: Natural Deodorant
This is 2016, and most of us (I hope) are aware that the drug-store deodorant we are accustomed to such as Secret contain harmful ingredients like aluminum compounds, which are linked to Alzheimers, and parabens which disrupt our hormone balance by mimicking estrogen.
A Buddhaful Brunch
A small country road runs parallel to the Palm River on the outskirts of Tampa. Hidden among oak trees draped in Spanish-moss, is a Buddhist temple known simply to locals … Continue reading
Shukriya
Countries around the world celebrate their day of thanks at different times of the year. Canada observes their version of Thanksgiving during October, then half their country leaves for Florida, … Continue reading
Our First Diwali
Diwali, also known as Deepvali, is the called the “Festival of Lights” and symbolizes “good defeating evil for Hindus. It’s celebrated during a five day period in autumn, marking the Hindu … Continue reading
The Turban Dilemma
The ladies on my island gather for a monthly Majong game; on occasion I join in. Normally I keep my personal life about Manny and I private, but on this … Continue reading
Dinky Indulgence: Garlic Joy
A Dinky Indulgence is something that fills your soul; a small pleasure that creates joy in your life. If we can fill our lives with these Dinky Indulgences, the stress … Continue reading
As We Think, So We Become
Cairo, Cherokee Reservation Is there really a path which could lead us to this elusive eternal bliss? I mean, is the ultimate goal of life to be insanely happy? I … Continue reading
My Big Fat Sikh Wedding: Indian Astrology
In case you are not aware a large portion of people in India live their lives completely by astrology and endless other superstitions. While we in the west may have … Continue reading
Sisterhood of the World Blogging Award
I am honored to announce that Buddhaful Britt was nominated for the Sisterhood of the World Blogging Award by Crystal of ForeignIndianWife.com. When Crystal nominated me she had no idea, … Continue reading
My Big Fat Sikh Wedding: The Dress
The entire process of a wedding is beyond absurd in my opinion, which is why I have avoided it my whole life. Women get so excited and crazy over the … Continue reading
Our K1 Visa Journey: the Interview
I left off my last post in my pajamas, probably with a glass of wine and tissue box, explaining the K1 fianace’ visa process. You can read about our initial visa … Continue reading
Our K1 Visa Journey: the Process
More than two years ago I met the most annoying yet adorable man I have ever known, we could not be more opposite. I am from the United States and … Continue reading
Easy Breezy DIY: Shikakai Natural Hair Cleanser (No Poo)
Shikakai: A Natural Hair Cleanser (No Poo) This is NOT a sponsored article and I am NOT a doctor, nutritionist, or astronaut… just in case you were wondering. I AM … Continue reading
Facebook Hiatus
Originally posted on the Tampa Bay Moms Blog, you can read it HERE. You can also be a part of the network of City Moms in Tampa, HERE by subscribing to a … Continue reading
The Anti New Year Resolution
By the time you read this, it will just be some random day and my master plan will have worked brilliantly. (((evil laugh))) I am certain you have transformed into … Continue reading
Tampa Bay Moms… and ME
Check out my my new gig folks. I know I have been MIA lately, but I have been extremely busy with school and my new endeavor writing for the Tampa … Continue reading
Secrets to a Beautiful Life
As the new year approaches, we tend to re-evaluate our lives and make promises we might not keep. Here is a list of things that will help make 2015 one … Continue reading
Nomadic Nirvana: Jaipur, India
The Golden Triangle, Road to Jaipur This was my first time in India… The best way to describe it is, India is an endless exotic photo-shoot. India is non-stop “What. … Continue reading
New York Will Always Be There
“New York will always be there” I was told. A few years ago when I was leaving my island paradise I was given that advise from a dear friend … Continue reading
Desensitized
This afternoon was like any other; I did some housework while my son was at school. There really isn’t much to write about today, just the daily musings about me … Continue reading
Your Boyfriend is From India?
Falling in love with a man from India has been a roller coaster combination of many interesting conversations, arguments, passions and complexities. I wouldn’t trade him for the world though, … Continue reading
Giving Blogging a Bad Name
Did you know that each time you click on a post in a social media site such as Facebook or Twitter that you are essentially being led to a … Continue reading
Our People Deserve A Native American Holiday
While attending a Pow Wow in Sarasota Florida, a beautiful Native American man named Niles Aseret suggested a national holiday for the Native American people of the United States… the … Continue reading
True Love Lives Quietly
Recently, friends keep asking for my advise about love. They act as if maybe I am some sort of “love guru” simply because I am in love with an amazing … Continue reading
Buddhafully Broke
So this is what being broke feels like? Call me weird, but I don’t mind it too much. Life has its twists and turns; I have been somewhat well-off … Continue reading
Just Ask
Somewhere around 2003 my company sent me to Mexico City to help open a few lounges in a trendy new W hotel, located in the posh Mexican neighborhood of Polanco. … Continue reading
Easy Breezy DIY: How to Milk an Almond
It’s so incredibly easy to make your own Almond Milk, its crazy. If I, the girl who does not “DO Kitchens” can do this, so can you. Not only is it healthier … Continue reading
Nomadic Nirvana: San Jose, Costa Rica
What can be said about a town that most people choose to skip, or scurry away from quickly into the Costa Rican jungles and beaches? The very appropriate nick-name for … Continue reading
Nomadic Nirvana: Puerto Viejo, Costa Rica
I haven’t been to Puerto Viejo, Costa Rica in more than fifteen years. The last time I was here… oh dear, where to begin. Well, it is about 5 hours … Continue reading
A Jersey Girl and Her Tomatoes
Never, ever, did I think I would say this, but… I’m a gardener. I feel kind of like when my bestie started knitting. You have to know her to understand … Continue reading
Do You Know What You Look Like?
What can be more enticing than some sweats and your favorite old T-shirt? Ahhhh, you wake up, and search your closet for the most comfortable thing you can find. It … Continue reading
C’mon Inner Peace…
Years ago while living in Manhattan I attempted to learn Buddhism, Zen Buddhism to be exact. I was gifted a book written by one of those Zen dudes whose … Continue reading
Stressed Out at the Dollar Store
Life is too good to stress out at the dollar store. See? I was in line at the dollar store. I had a pleasant visit gathering things for my … Continue reading
The Creative Process
This writing gig sure does have a certain pattern to it. I guess this is what they call the “creative process”? Before starting this blog, I wrote when I felt … Continue reading
When Time Flies
My brain thinks things, and I write them down. What do other people do? There is no formal writing involved, it just happens. Since I was small, everyone has always … Continue reading
Alacazam!
I suck at math… Suck? That word is too light to describe math in my opinion. I would rather be swimming in the Gulf waters filled with chum, than … Continue reading
Blissfully Beige
My friend Doug would say that living beige is banal; It’s bland, simply…surviving. I beg to differ. For the first time in my life, I’m choosing beige. I’m saying good … Continue reading